Re: Help "69" technique
69 is easier for us if I`m on top. For one, as the female, I`m lighter and it`s much more comfortable for me to have my weight on him than vice versa. Secondly, imagine the logistics of giving your man oral sex if he was on top - you`d either have to stretch your neck out and give yourself a neck cramp or he`d have to be thrusting directly into your throat (probably not the most comfortable sensation for most women, especially because he could thrust more deeply than you`re prepared for).
69 can be a pretty difficult position because it`s hard to stay focused sometimes. lol. I prefer just me going down on him or him going down on me - it`s easier to concentrate on your own pleasure that way and I have trouble orgasming in 69 because I think too much about him. It`s always worth a try, though, and you never know whether you`ll like it until you do!