Kaputt wrote:something sensible if wrote:i kinda feel like he's pushed to greatness in spite of her. i sorta understand that mentality. just a guess.
If your partner is holding you back from greatness because she wants unreasonable things like to live in a home with you and to go for ice cream then end the relationship. It's incredibly shitty to treat her like she's holding him back.
Why do you hate her, clouds? From the film and that interview she just seems like a normal person who loves someone that is incapable of giving her the same in return.
probably for the same reasons alex honnold hates her, only i would never date anyone i hated and then emotionally abuse them for years out of spite. i'm obviously using hate in a hyperbolic way but i dislike everything i know about her. she doesn't at all seem like someone i'd enjoy being around.
remember the (2) compliments he gave her in the film? she is cute and small so she doesn't take up much space in the van. critiques? dropped me on the rocks, wants a big house, wants fancy appliances, tries to talk to me with her dumb face, isn't ok with me dying etc, thinks it's sad when people die, etc, etc
her personality is grating to me, the way she said ciao and went back to sleep when he did the free solo of el cap has never left my head, her lifestyle 1-800-#vanlife coaching thing makes my skin crawl, i question her motivations for meeting/dating him not only because of how she sought him out but because of the "ciao" type emotional disconnect for him she seems to have. she seems to want him to change things about himself he's obviously doe not want to change. in his defense it seems he was honest about it upfront. but all weighed out i decree he is the bad guy because he is mean to her and she's just annoying. the both seem to dislike a ton of major traits in each other, but he is being shittier about it so the onus is on him to cut the shit out and.or leave her. there's my freesolo speculative goss.